1【原创】老外拍马屁 5 lin 2008-04-30 02:18:25
以前总认为老外不喜欢拍马屁，今天可算见识了。教授是个成功的商人，写了本书，让大家看了以后写读后感。本人不敢多拍，在文章结尾表达一下对老师的仰慕，感谢在书中分享这些经验教训。转头看到一个老美在电脑跟前勤奋，拿去麻烦他挑挑语法什么的，瞥一眼他的读后感，好嘛！人家开篇就讲“WOW！这真是一本不得多的好书啊！写的实在是好！我真后悔我怎么没有早点看到它呢！如果早点看到我就能够学到。。。”真会拍啊！

2中国人拍马屁拉关系是业余的。 tubie 2008-05-04 20:40:29
美国人是职业的。作为社会和职业技能的一部分来培养的。
拍马屁是一门超越文化的学问。 在特定文化背景之下怎么拍到痒处更是学问很大。

我以前一个同学很感慨地说：“在美国，英语不过关，连拍马屁都不会派。“ 后来猛练马屁功，居然小有所成。靠关系挤入美国政府机关。据他所说，周围的人都是有后台的，或者有亲戚关系的。

2Wow! You just know that? 6 混天球 2008-04-30 07:54:52
Ass kissing is a fundamental communication and team working skill. I think it is practiced more often in the U.S. comparing to in China. Academia is not an exception if not more than industry. But kissing ass, especially kissing ass well is not an easy job. "Wow, this book is the best one I've read in the whole universe" will not work well. The ultimate art of kissing ass is to wear a rosy glass and look at everything pink, and praise them sincerely.

Flowers to you, to celebrate the start of your exciting journey to master the art of building positive relations, a.k.a, kissing ass. Wu-laaa!

3"praise them sincerely“ tubie 2008-05-04 20:41:51
is the key and most difficult part.

3谢谢，听君一席话胜读十年书啊 lin 2008-04-30 08:49:24

2老外也是人吗，千穿万穿马屁不穿 轩辕斩 2008-04-30 06:14:29

2本来是要放[开心一刻]下面的，怎么加呢？麻烦xdjm告知 :D lin 2008-04-30 02:21:31